MY personal opinions WHY I THINK NOBODY DATED THE GIRL IN THE WHEELCHAIR AND WHAT THEY MISSED OUT ON!
This post topic made me both anxious and giggle when it came to doing it! Contemplated SO MANY ways & ideas on how I wanted to do this post. Funny thing is, this is NOT even remotely close to what I wanted or where I was going in the first place with it. Yet, this feels, like, right, yaknow!?
Anyone that’s been a loyal reader or knows me on a personal level knows that I am an open book & I’m not gona’ lie or sugar-coat shit about anything! Because why would I?
OH! & just incase you missed what this post is about, let me refresh that shit! – “5 REASONS WHY I (personal opinion) THINK NOBODY DATED THE GIRL IN THE WHEELCHAIR AND WHAT THEY MISSED OUT ON!” ahhhhh! Thank god for copy & paste.
SOOOO!!…let’s get straight to the knitty-gritties! & talk about the uncomfortable, awkward stuff :)
I’m just gona say it out loud (Because I can! Because I have a one too! And because this is my post) – THE WHEELCHAIR.
For some reason. It felt like the chair was almost, alienating and it was as if, somehow, ya girl became contagious the day they gave her a chair on wheels, right?
WRONG! & due to the ignorance of it all, you missed out on all the perks that come with her and her chair – free teddies from cops, front seat passes to sports games or concerts. OH shit! Plus hanging out with a really cool bitch, ha!
& don’t forget – THE DISABILITY.
When you hear the words “disabled” or “disability”, what are your thoughts? And then throw “dating” or “hook up” or even “relationships” into the mix, now how do you feel or think? Would you go there? Be honest!
The reason I’m asking is because in some ways, it’s almost like, ya girl became less human or unattractive due to the “disability”.
Well, guess what!? Fuck you! A disability or a wheelchair DOES NOT define a person and it most definitely doesn’t define the relationship. I get it though, it’s been a world of “taught biases” over the years where, people with disabilities are to be avoided at all costs, or are “different” – umm HELLO! Aren’t we all different??! Imagine if we all avoided each other due to being “different”. So stupid.
But. If “avoiding at all costs”, how much are we talking? ;) may as well make some $$ off chumps.
ANYWAY, you missed out on: A girl with so much love & affection to give. A world of open-ness & loyalty. A wicked personality. Free & special parking (only when she’s in the vehicle with you at the time). #yourlossNOThers
Over the years, there’s been so many – ASSUMPTIONS.
“She can’t feel”, “She can’t have sex”, “She can’t move this or that”, “She can’t do this or that”, “She talk or understand, I thought she was brain damaged?!”
One must never assume things! Makes you look like an ass. & because of assumptions, a girl won’t correct you. It’s not hard to ASK rather than conjure shit up. Nothing more annoying.
So, because of your assumptions, you missed out on: Finding out some TRUE facts about her. The “things” she actually can do. How much she doesn’t shut up. Her intelligence. Her bombass….#!?%$ - you’ll just never know now!
She’s not a super-model – THE BODY IMAGE.
Her insecurities were at an all time high and she was just as insecure as the next girl about her body and the “image” it was projecting out to those who could see her! I’m talking, the typical spinal – belly, her closed-in fingers, her regular spasms, her clothing, her curly, frizzy hair, her over-sized shoes.
The list could go on!
You missed out on: Seeing beyond all of that because ya girl let her low self-esteem be in control.
Didn’t you want to be a – SUPER HERO?
Hells teeth! We can’t let a wheelchair or a disability ruin your “image”, can’t have you worried about what others think, in case you’re mocked or teased huh! – because your shitty, close-minded attitude doesn’t do that for you on its’ own, right?!
We, humans are strange creatures. It’s a shame that some of us go for “looks” over “personality” or a person’s “qualities”.
You missed out on: Being a Super-Hero. People of the public would’ve seen you with her and thought you’re a fucking “Super-Hero” mate! – because dating a wheelchair user…does that. But you'll never know because you didn't date the girl in the wheelchair!
Stay happy, Keep smiling! X